Focus Areas 

What you might be navigating

Anxiety and worry

Stress and burnout

Perfectionism

Self-criticism

Relationships

Life Transitions

Grief and loss

Our Philosophy

Change rarely comes from pushing harder.
It grows from learning how to relate to your thoughts, emotions, and patterns with more steadiness and self-compassion.

We blend evidence-based approaches (ACT, MCT, CFT, mindfulness) with a calm, structured presence. 

You'll learn practical tools you can use in daily life, not just during sessions. Our work is grounded in your lived experience and paced to feel doable, not overwhelming.

“I finally feel like I'm not constantly bracing for the next thing.”

— Cathy, Individual Client

“We went from barely speaking to actually hearing each other again.”

— Riley & Susan, Couples Therapy Clients

“The intensive gave me tools I use in daily life, not just ideas I try and forget.”

— Thomas, Mindfulness Intensive Participant

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Individual Sessions

Compassionate one‑to‑one support to calm your mind and feel more grounded in daily life.

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Couples Work

A supportive space to talk honestly, soften recurring tensions, and rebuild connection together.


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Weekend Intensives

Focused, small‑group weekends to step back, reset, and build momentum on what matters most.

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Work with Us

Therapy & Coaching

Individual Therapy & Coaching Sessions

Steady, one-on-one support to help you reduce rumination, navigate overwhelm, and build skills you can use immediately so you feel more grounded and show up more fully in your life.

This can be helpful if you are:

Caught in anxiety, worry, or constant overthinking

Moving through burnout or ongoing stress that's hard to switch off

Stuck in perfectionism that keeps you feeling “never enough”

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Couples Work

Couples Therapy & Weekend Retreats

A steady space to improve communication, soften recurring patterns, and rebuild connection—whether you're strengthening a long-term partnership or preparing for deeper commitment.

This can be helpful when:

Conflicts keep looping without real resolution

You feel distant, misunderstood, or less like a team

Communication feels tense or quickly escalates


Small-Group Intensives

Focused Weekend Intensives

Immersive, small-group weekends designed for when you're stuck and need dedicated time to reset, build skills, and create momentum—with tools you can use the following Monday.

An intensive is a good fit if you want:

Space away from daily life to really focus

Practical tools you can use straight away

Optional guided follow-on sessions

5 Grounding Practices to
Navigate Difficult Times

4 Grounding Practices to Navigate Difficult Times

Download our free guide to receive practices that help when stress, worry, or overwhelm take over. No fluff, just simple tools that work.

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Who this is for

Our approach is for you if...

You're tired of powering through and ready to build steadiness that lasts

You want practical tools and compassionate accountability

You're ready to shift patterns instead of just understanding them


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How it works

01

Start with a free consultation

We'll talk about what's bringing you here, what support might look like, and answer any questions you have. This is a no-pressure, 15-minute conversation to see if we're a good fit.

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We'll create your path forward

Whether it's individual or couples sessions (typically weekly) or a weekend intensive, we'll design an approach that fits your life and honours your pace.

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Receive steady, ongoing support

With practical tools, compassionate guidance, and gentle accountability, we'll work together to shift patterns and create change you can feel in daily life.

Ready to start? 

Small, steady shifts create lasting change. When you're ready to build resilience and intentionally shape a life that reflects your deepest values, this space is for you.

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